Our Baser Instincts are Being Used to Control Us

Just a disclaimer the Kama sutra feature all types of relationships its not just hetero, so whoever chooses  to be a courtesan chooses and whoever chooses to attend attends is my assumption

How do we make a society less sexually abusive, is it by appealing to mans most basic instincts or ‘training’ them to think of a higher purpose?

 

Sex has the ability to leave the largest impact on a person's brain- have sex and it imprints the strongest out of everything, of course overtime we can teach ourselves that it is just a regular (beautiful /or not beautiful, and in between) occurrence. I read a book to do with the origins of belly dance in the Indus River Valley Civilisations, were topless belly dancers collecting coins as payments (hence why they have coins on their attire), were actually seen as spiritual leaders as women were said to be closer to God. They were there to teach men the highest way of sex. If we fast forward to Heermandi we see that side by side these women were trying to teach men the airs and graces of society whilst also leaving the strongest sexual memory in their heads, was this a manipulation tool? Is it even a question? Was this to the benefit of society? In other words, they were trying to seduce these men by carrying out behaviours that were deemed as best by society at that time. They were telling these men ‘this is how you seduce’ this is what attraction is.

Now here is a theory:

We were getting closer to unification and then, trying to keep the differences and the inequalities that allow wealth disparity among others, they said let's move from unification and not heal people through sex instead use sex to destroy people. Let’s use it to control their minds, lets make them sex fiends, lets just have them see sex as sex and not that good sex comes from good practices. I arrived at this conclusion by identifying the fact that I see those who fiend after sex as having perversions of the mind, the smallest sexual act will turn them on, they will judge a woman’s value purely by one factor, whether that is intelligence or beauty but they won't look for the well-rounded whole. Everything is divided hence why sex is so primal and plays on our baser instincts by causing us to live in a world where we only use our baser instincts (think food, think of beauty, think of the way these products are marketed to us what do they play on…our baser instincts). The narrative of what we desire is set in this way. I.e. we desire tasty food, i.e. we desire cheaper things, i.e. we desire more things but do we desire BETTER things?). These desires control us (THIS IS WHAT THE BUDDAH WAS ON ABOUT!!!!) hence why the brothels were closed as they tried to get us to use our higher instincts and corn and only fans is rampant.

 

However, the brothels weren’t the stairway to heaven they posed to be girls were forced to entertain men who didn’t have any sense of value. And so it is argued that the brothels were shut as they led to sexual abuses. But isn’t our society sexually abusive? And what is the better alternative?

To add to this think about the level of skill and confidence and organisation these women needed to have this is what is meant by the well rounded whole only celebrities are seen as really being able to preform these days. Is this because they believed they were doing gods work and therefore, had to present like a god?